Kayla Bonkowski | The Dog Nobody Wanted and What She Teaches Us
Every rescue has animals that get passed over. Working with those animals teaches something about patience that easier placements cannot. Every rescue organization has them: the animals that do not move. They have been available for weeks, sometimes months. They have a history that makes adopters hesitate. They present behaviors in the adoption environment that cause people to walk past. Kayla Bonkowski fosters and rescues dogs in Sterling Heights, Michigan. She holds a Cum Laude psychology degree from Rochester College and is completing her MSW with a focus on hospice and palliative care. She has worked with easy placements and difficult ones. The difficult ones have been more instructive. The animal that nobody wanted requires a specific kind of attention. Not more intense. More patient. Not more frequent contact. More consistent presence at the same low level of pressure, repeated across enough time for the animal to update its model of what the world is like. A dog that has experi...